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Rhode Island Computer Crimes in RI Divorces? Absolutely!

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Whether you like it or not Rhode Island Divorces with bitter spouses are no longer simple anymore.  They have risen to the level of cyber terrorism yet the law has yet to catch up with it in the area of Rhode Island Family Law.  Only criminal law seems to have reached the area of computer crime and infiltration of private information.  Here is only one example of what computer hackers are capable of.

Privacy is no longer something to be considered sacred anymore and some parties in a divorce have taken matters to new heights, going so far as infecting computers with hidden software programs that go virtually unnoticed by the user while the spouse is constantly fed your private information.

Imagine being in a Rhode Island divorce proceeding only to have your private emails and banking records thrown at your own attorney in the courtroom hallway. 

Imagine having your account at BANK RI drained of funds by a transfer you never authorized.

Imagine having fraudulent information published on your Facebook page to be used against you in your divorce when they were planted by your spouse who has stooped to a new low in guerilla divorce tactics.

These are only a few of the actions that spouses have taken or could take to cripple you in a divorce proceeding whether they contain accurate information or fraudulent information.

Denial is usually the first level a spouse will arrive at if these things are even mentioned, yet the reality of the things are that people who can do these things are readily available through the internet or through internet contacts.  Sadly there are even companies that sell little known programs that will do some very damaging and intrusive things to you in your RI Divorce proceeding without having the slightest amount of computer knowledge at all.

In the end, depending upon how the person engaged by your spouse approaches the situation, or which spouse performs the actions, or which spouse even "owns" the computer, the spouse taking these denigrating acts of violation or hires a person to do so may have committed a state or federal computer crime punishable by fines or jail time.  Yet many spouses, especially those with children, bank on the very fact that the spouse begin victimized by these computer invasions of privacy would never cause the mother or the father of their children to be labeled as a criminal.

Ultimately, if you have a computer, especially one connected to the internet by a cable or DSL internet service your level of awareness during a divorce should be increased as should that of your divorce lawyer. 

Yes, Rhode Island divorces could (and frankly have) become subject to criminal acts out of everything from emotion, to vengeance to extreme acts of protection which may be, in fact, criminal.

Watch your back!  Watch your front!  Watch your kids!  But be ever vigilant that your computer may be used to watch YOU!

As a Rhode Island lawyer focusing my practice mostly on divorce coaching these days I look back upon a man who said something to me privately decades ago that perplexed me.  This man had been practicing in another state for some 40+ years.

This man was about as true, honorable and generous a gentleman as I have ever met.  He embodied everything that I saw in a good lawyer.  He truly cared about his clients.  He fought for each one of them.  Yet he did so within the bounds of the law, within the bounds of his professional ethical code, and with a high degree of morality such as I have never seen before.  The lawyer knew that I admired him and had great respect for him as both a person and as a lawyer.  

One extremely hot Tuesday afternoon this rather portly lawyer returned to his office after losing a  district court hearing.  He plopped himself down in the chair at the opposite end of the short conference room table I was sitting at in the office law library.  His secretary nervously brought him a lemonade and napkin then quickly skirted out of the room.  There was silence.  It seemed to go on forever.  Finally, I said, "I'm considering becoming a lawyer."

It lasted perhaps two seconds but it seemed like an eternity.  The lawyer lifted his  partially balding forehead, wiped his brow with the napkin then grabbed a nearby law book and flung it across his small law library.  The book smashed against a row of New Hampshire Statutes Annotated.  I heard the spine of the hardcover book tear slightly as it fell to the floor.

It was one of the first times I had ever seen this man so angry and upset.

I was quiet.  Perhaps my timing was off.  This time I kept my big mouth shut and waited until the lawyer spoke.  This is what he said.

Lawyer:  [Very Loudly though not Shouting] "I HATE LAWYERS! 

This time the pause was endless and it seemed very clear the lawyer wasn't going to say anything else.  So, I took a chance.  I was just too puzzled not to speak.

Chris:  "I don't understand.  You are a lawyer."
    
He was quiet for another period of time.  I took a chance and asked my question.

Chris:  "How can you hate lawyers when you are one?  I don't get it."

He waited quite awhile before speaking.   I was thankful that there wasn't another hardcover book within the lawyer's reach.

Lawyer:  [ A bit calmer . .  ]   I can't explain it.  You have to live it.  But I tell you Chris, if you're anything like me you'll know what I mean when you get there.

That was it.  The conversation never went further.  It was never brought up again to this date.

I've been working in the legal field now for more than 20 years after that conversation.  

As a Rhode Island lawyer I am bound by a Professional Code of Ethical Conduct and Rules of Conduct.  To some extent there are things that I can say and things, things I shouldn't say and things I am prohibited either from saying or doing.  Some of them might amaze the layperson.  I know they amaze me.  Morality and Personal Professional Ethics are another ball of wax that are completely different.

The lawyer's name (for lack of a better one just as a point of reference) was Roger.

Hopefully he's still alive and hopefully he is in tune enough with today's "internet" that he reads this article.

So after all the years that have passed I would like to address one statement to this great lawyer and then another one to you as my reader.

First, to this great lawyer.

Roger, I went down the path.  Just as you thought, I was very much like you.  Thank you for your wisdom.  Just as you thought, I understand. 

Now, to my readers I offer this.

If you have read my message to Roger then you may not understand the statement I make now until you meet with me.

"If you need a lawyer and you happen to like lawyers then chances are . . you won't like me."

With that said, I can tell you that as a Rhode Island Lawyer who has focused my practice exclusively in the area of divorce and family law, I can't make your problems go away.  They are your problems and only you can take responsibility for them and only you have the power to resolve them in your life by your own decisions.

What I can tell you is that I can help you understand and to get through your Rhode Island divorce and family law challenges by working with you as your Coach or by working for you through Representation.

Roger's words were invaluable.  Today, they are the powerful force motivating the continued growth of your coaching program.  It is a your program specifically because it is designed for you.  It is designed to teach you, train you, inform you, and save you time and money in the areas of divorce and family law.

As Your Coaching Program continues to evolve, it will continue to work faster for you, become more economical than it already is for you, become more helpful than it already is for everyone.

Whatever you choose to believe, there is one thing you can know with certainty.  I am one lawyer trying to make a difference with a new and innovative way of practice designed by my sacrifices and your willingness to be open to something new that works. 

What can Your Coaching Program Help You With?

Rhode Island Divorces & Legal Separations
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Preparing Pre-Nuptual Agreements and Ante-Nuptual Agreements
Petitions to Move Out of State with Minor Children
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Petitions to Establish Paternity
Motions to Adjudge In Contempt and Defense of Contempt
Protection from Abuse Petitions and Defense Against Such Petitions
Rhode Island Motions and Petitions to Establish, Modify or Terminate Visitation
RI Common Law Divorces and their Defense
Rhode Island Legal Rights
2nd Opinions on Rhode Island Family Law Cases
and many more . . . 

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In a Rhode Island divorce, separation and other miscellaneous family law matters which involve the equitable division of the marital estate of two individuals, the Rhode Island family court has the power to divide the marital assets of the parties.

The specific focus of this Rhode Island Coaching tip relates to the inheritance of items.  One of the more common items inherited are stock shares and/or certificates.

Since there are countless variations of inheritances, types of items inherited, etc . . this tip is limited solely to stocks that are inherited by only one spouse during the marriage.

Consider this example.  

Jeremiah and Pamela have been married for four (4) years.  There are no children of the marriage and they do not own any real estate.  For the past four (4) years Jeremiah has paid the rent on their apartment and all of the household bills while Pamela has attended school to become a nurse.

Jeremiah files for divorce.  During the divorce proceedings, Pamela's older brother passes away and Pamela inherits seven thousand (7,000) shares of stock in Ford Motor Company which her brother's estate transfers into Pamela's name.  The estimated value of the Ford Stock is forty-five thousand dollars ($45,000).

The Ford Stock is the only actual asset that either party has that has any real value to it.

Jeremiah calculates that all the bills he has paid for them during their marriage is about $53,000.  Jeremiah believes its fair that he receive something for supporting Pamela for four (4) years while she attended school.  

Jeremiah demands one half of the Ford Stock to compensate him for Pamela's half of the all the rent and bills that he has paid for the past four (4) years claiming that this is less than 50% of Pamela's share of the bills and therefore it is fair and equitable.

Pamela doesn't have a family law lawyer and thinks that this sounds reasonable.  Before signing the settlement documents Pamela schedules a coaching session with Attorney Pearsall.

Pamela discovers that Jeremiah can't touch the inherited stock and that it is solely hers and not even part of the marital estate.  Pamela is confused because she received it during the marriage.  She does not understand why it isn't marital property.  

Rhode Island Family Law Coach Christopher Pearsall takes time to coach Pam through the thought process.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  Pam, it's nice to meet you and I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your brother, especially during a difficult time such as a divorce.

PAMELA:  Thank you Mr. Pearsall.  It is very upsetting to lose my brother and to have to deal with a divorce too.  I just want this divorce done with.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL::  I completely understand Pam, but since you've come to me I want to make sure you are informed.  You have a specific issue about stocks you inherited when you brother died and your husband wants half of them in the divorce to make up for half of the bills he paid for both of you while you were married.  Did I get that right from your call.

PAMELA:  Yes Sir.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL::  You can call me Chris.  You've got enough on your plate without being formal with me.  After all, I'm here to help you.

PAMELA:  Okay Mister... I mean Chris.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  Okay, well first Pam, there's a law in Rhode Island that makes inheritances exempt from the marital estate.  I'll give you a copy of that law before you leave.

Now, there are exceptions to that law so let's go through a few questions together to show you what the court will normally look at.  Now... as long as your answer to each question is "NO" then that Ford stock should still be just yours alone okay?

PAMELA:  Okay.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL::  Alright, forget about that Ford Stock for this question.  Are there any other stocks, pensions, annuities, 401ks or any other kind of retirement or investment accounts that either you or Jeremiah had during your marriage?

PAMELA:  No. [ Pause ]  So that Ford stock should still be mine so far, right?

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  So far ... but let's keep going.  Does the stock pay any dividends?

PAMELA:  No.  It's just regular common stock in Ford.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  Great.

Pamela:  So far the stock should still be just mine, right?

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  Right.  Now, did you put Jeremiah's name on the stock for any purpose at all?  

PAMELA:  No.  My brother just died recently and we were getting divorced so I didn't do that.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  So far so good Pam.

PAMELA:  Okay.. I think I understand how this coaching works now.  You take me through it step by step so I understand what I need to look at, right?

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  You've got it... but we're on a roll here so let's keep going.  Did you put the stock certificates in a safe deposit box or in a place so that both you and Jeremiah have access to?

PAMELA:  No.  The administrator of my brother's estate still has the certificates.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL::  Okay.  Did you give Jeremiah any kind of Power of Attorney or sign any document at all that gives Jeremiah any right to keep, sell, trade or do anything else with that stock either by himself or on your behalf?

PAMELA:  No.  Nothing.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL::  Now have you sold any of those stocks?

Pamela:  No.  The administrator still has them.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  This is the last question Pam.  Did you apply for or take out any loans that use that stock as security for any loan?  Or did you pledge the stock as collateral for anything?

PAMELA::  No.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  Okay.  Now I need to make sure you understand something Pam.  I asked you these questions because the court and particularly Jeremiah or his attorney will look for anything that shows that you commingled this stock with your marriage.  If they can find something then they can argue that the court can divide it.  If they don't find anything then the stock remains yours.

PAMELA:  So the stock is mine, right?

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  I've asked you all the usual and major questions that would be asked to tie the stock to the marriage.  Based upon what we have discussed , YES... I just want you to be aware that if there is something obscure even a small thing that we have missed then the answer might change.  I think we did a good job though.  Is there anything else you can think of that relates to your marriage or Jeremiah and the Ford Stock that you haven't mentioned?

PAMELA:  No.  So does that mean that I shouldn't give Jeremiah half of the stock because the law says so?

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  Actually, it means that Jeremiah probably doesn't have a legal right to those stocks at all.  However, it's really up to you what you decide to do with the stocks and whether you give any to Jeremiah.

What you did with me here is very important.  You looked at the stocks with me step by step and now you know that Jeremiah probably can't touch them even though he is trying to make a convincing argument because the law says they should be yours.

PAMELA:  I am glad I made this appointment.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  Best of all, you did the analysis with me by going through the questions and you know that if Jeremiah comes up with an argument that doesn't tie the stock to your marriage in some way, then it isn't an argument that gives him a right to part of those stocks.

PAMELA:  Thanks Chris.  This has been very educational.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL::  That's what I'm here for Pam.  I coach you through your issues but you're the real expert in the end because no one knows your life better than you.

PAMELA:  And its my decision as to what I want to do with the stock?

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  You can agree to give Jeremiah some of them or you can take the position that legally they are yours and he is not entitled to any of them.  That's up to you Pam.  But now you know the stocks should be yours and what the test is for your husband to have any legal claim to them.

PAMELA:  That's great.  This worked out better than I thought Chris.  Thanks.  It was nice meeting you.  Here's a check for our session.

ATTORNEY PEARSALL:  Thank you.  It has been my pleasure to serve you Pam.  That's what I'm here for.  Call me again if you need any more coaching.


General Rule:  Items inherited solely by either party are not part of the marital estate and are the property of the individual who inherited them and are not subject to division by the Rhode Island Family Court.  

General Exception:  If the person who inherited an item commingles (mixes) that item in with marital property that IS subject to division, then the court may find that the inherited item has lost its "inherited character" and has become a marital asset of both parties which is subject to the court's power of division.






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